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We?ve all made mistakes in our personal lives and that includes our romantic relationships. Sometimes we may take things too far and cause our partners considerable stress. What do you do when you?ve hurt your woman?s feelings? Is there a way that you can return things to the way they were before?
It all depends on your relationship and connection together. If you have a strong relationship then it will be much easier for you to talk through things and trust one another in the future. It also depends on what you?ve done. For those of you who have cheated, that?s a much bigger issue than simply saying something hurtful.
The first thing you need to do is identify your transgression. If it?s something large and potentially life-altering such as cheating or having an affair, then you?ll have a much longer process. You have more to prove to her and you have to regain her trust again. In this article, we?ll focus on the smaller transgressions.
Sometimes men say things that are hurtful for a variety of reasons. If you?ve been verbally abusive at all, then you must apologize. These are usually the things that hurt women the most. If you?ve said something that has hurt her deeply then you need to apologize.
After you apologize, you need to talk things through with her. Communication is of the utmost importance here in terms of restoring your relationship. Don?t let her feel alone and don?t let her feel as though you don?t care about her feelings. Show her that you care by being there for her and listening. Understand what you said that hurt her and why it hurt her.
Once you know what you?ve said and why it hurt her, you can explain to her why you said it. Maybe you were taking out your anger on her because of something that happened at work. Perhaps you over-reacted in a heated argument the two of you were having. Maybe you didn?t even mean to say what you said and you don?t actually agree with what you said. It doesn?t matter what it is. Apologize for having said it and let her know why.
Talking through the hurt, though you may need to give her a bit of space first, is the best way to restore your relationship.
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